Itâs time for Jenn Tran to be the main character of her own story.
The 26-year-old is looking for love on Season 21 of âThe Bacheloretteâ and she revealed on Access Hollywoodâs Behind the Easel, what was going through her mind when she got the call that she would be the lead in the upcoming season.
âI really had to think about it,â she told Access. âIt was, you know, a decision that had been in the back of my mind for a while because I had been doing meetings about it and stuff, and I just wasnât sure that I wanted everything that this role really entailed. Itâs no secret that your entire life is on display to the public and I wasnât sure if I really wanted that, but I knew that I wanted to find love. Iâm a hopeless romanticâ she added.
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But before Jenn embarked on her journey to find love, she had to tell her family.
âMy mom was like âPlease hire a fake mom, I am not going on TV,ââ Jenn recalled. âThey were obviously really excited for me. I think they were nervous mostly just because they want the best for me and itâs not the most traditional way to go about finding love.â
Jenn particularly had to get her mom on board.
âWith my mom I think itâs like every other day convincing type of deal,â she said. âI know Iâm not going to convince her in one conversation. Itâs kind of like priming her with each conversation.â
When it came to dating 25 men, Jenn admits it was a lot to handle.
âDating 25 men at one time, is not something anybody should do normally. I donât recommend it,â she told Access. âI think itâs definitely a process and itâs a lot of I think mental strength.â
As for how she navigated dating so many people at once, Jenn said it was not âan easy feat.â
âI really had to try to compartmentalize a lot of these relationships,â she said. âWhen I was with somebody else or having a conversation, I was just trying to really stay present in each conversation and explore each relationship in the extent that they needed to be explored.â
Jenn is the first Asian bachelorette and while getting to know the men, she said it was important to talk to them about raising a half Vietnamese child.
âWhen I thought about dating, I really thought about what I wanted in a lasting relationship, and a lot of those conversations that I wanted to have revolved around what it would look like having a half-Vietnamese kid, knowing what that would mean to my partner,â she said. âA lot of those conversations were definitely being had because thatâs important for me to have in a partner is having someone whoâs open-minded about embracing my culture.â
Ultimately, Jenn had one key takeaway from the experience.
âI really think it was such a huge learning experience for me, to learn about what I want in a relationship and what I need, but really what I think that I was most proud of myself for was learning that itâs okay to have a voice.â
Watch Jenn find love on Season 21 of âThe Bachelorette,â which premieres July 8 at 8 p.m. on ABC.