Selena Gomez Reveals What She’s Looking For In A Relationship Amid Benny Blanco Romance

Selena Gomez is opening up about what she wants out of a relationship. The “Single Soon” songstress, 31, who recently announced she’s dating Benny Blanco, shared in a new interview translated from Spanish to English with Vogue México y Latinoamérica that “self-respect” among other things is what she wants for her heart. “Honestly, I have to start being attracted to the right kind of people, because it’s a bit of both. It’s very hard to find someone who can listen to you and care about you, but I know when it happens it will be great, and I will want it to be healthy,” she told the magazine. Selena continued, adding her philosophy on how she handles life experiences and former relationships. “I firmly believe that everything in my life happens for a reason. I always try to say: ‘What’s the lesson here?’ I want to learn the lesson and I want to grow from this, and I want to experience what it’s like to get through those moments that are really difficult,” she added.